It's not that you don't know what you want.
It's not that you don't hold the vision of your future self.
It's not that you haven't been told what to do.
It's not that you haven't tried before.
It's not that you don't want to change.
It's not that you don't know how it works.
It's not that you aren't convinced that it is the right thing to do.
It's not that you don't know where to go.
It's not that you don't have the right stuff.
It's that the disappointment of trying and failing one more time might be too much for you.
It's that you no longer trust yourself to believe that it is possible for you.
It's that you just can't fail in front of people one more time.
It's that you don't believe that it can really happen for you.
It's that it works for so many people you know, but it hasn't worked for you.
It's the grief that feels so overwhelming when it doesn't not work.
It's starting right back at the beginning again.
It's that it just feels like you have so far to go.
It's sharing your excitement when you start, then having to explain and own why it didn't work.
It's that you are tired of hard. You know you can do hard. You have been doing hard for years.
It's risky, but you will risk it again if you know you'll get there this time.
And that is just it...
You will never know if you will get there, if it will work, if it will feel good, if you can stick at it, if this time really is different until you take one step forward and reach for what you want.
Isn't the risk, not reaching?
Isn't the disappointment not trying again?
Isn't the heartbreak the self trust you let slip?
Isn't the overwhelm staying the same?
Isn't the love in the hope and support you share with your friends?
Isn't the failure not becoming who you could be?
Isn't the grief the time you let pass?
Isn't the regret what could have been?
All of this to tell you in the single moment you decide to try for whatever it is you are reaching for, fighting for, wanting with all of your being, that is the moment you win for yourself.
Aren't you ready to see who you can become, to give it your all, to take one tiny step forward, to know how good you can really feel?
Support, accountability, consistency and connection are the reason Arlais is now a Virtual Studio.
So you don't have to wonder if you can do it even when you are scared, so you don't have to wonder if you can make the time, so you don't have to wonder what happens when your motivation slides again, so you don't have to wonder if you don't show up will anyone notice, so you don't have to wonder if anyone is on your side cheering you on.
A Virtual Studio so we, yes you and me can become a team. So this time the outcome is different, a team so that anywhere and everywhere at anytime you can keep the commitment you made yourself to try again.
Virtual so you are no longer solo in your quest, virtual so you have a cheer squad of your own, virtual so you always have access to support and accountability. Virtual so your can maintain your schedule.
So that you can, no matter where you are or what is happening as the world swirls around you, nothing changes, your class can still happen. You can always keep working on the commitment you made yourself, on the action you want to take when you decided to try again.
Virtual so you can win for yourself.
Ready to do this, ready to go all in?
See you in class!